Episode 361: A Priest and a Funeral Director Talk About Death, Funerals, and What Happens After We Die (with Victor Sweeney)

What do priests and funeral directors have in common? According to Bishop Robert Barron, “The priest goes where most don’t want to go”—and the same could be said of funeral directors.

In this episode, Fr. Edward Looney sits down with funeral director Victor Sweeney for a candid and thoughtful conversation about death, funerals, and what lies beyond this life. Fr. Edward shares stories from death calls—including one time when he simply made a pot of coffee for a grieving family in the midst of chaos. Victor reflects on his own experiences, including leading a Latin prayer when he encountered a deeply Catholic home and family.

They explore how Victor’s Catholic faith informs his work, why he is careful with the word “love” in obituaries, and how he helps his parish observe All Souls’ Day and remember the dead. The conversation also touches on Purgatory, Catholic and non-Catholic funeral rites, what Victor has learned from preachers, and why he once made homemade graves for the poor.

Fr. Edward and Victor discuss contemporary funeral culture—why fewer families are holding funerals today, the rise of cremation, and how Catholics can better understand the importance of reverently burying ashes. Victor also shares about his secular book, which invites readers of all backgrounds to reflect on life, death, and eternity.

Whether you’ve recently lost a loved one, work in ministry, or simply want to think more deeply about mortality and hope, this conversation offers wisdom, honesty, and faith-filled perspective.

Buy Victor Sweeney's book- https://www.amazon.com/Now-Departing-Small-Town-Mortician-Moments/dp/1668062119